The Art of a Ruined Orgasm
You may have heard the term before but what is a ruined orgasm and why does it pair so well with cum eating? We’re all starting to realize that when it comes to sex, the journey can be just as thrilling as the destination. Foreplay and experimentation are opening up all sorts of exciting new ways to experience pleasure for both sexes. However, for most guys, the ultimate goal of sex is still that satisfying orgasm. Often viewed as the highlight of the experience. But some people actually enjoy having that intense pleasure interrupted, denying themselves the full release. This is known as a “ruined orgasm,” and the mix of physical frustration and heightened anticipation is what makes it so intriguing.
Curious? Here’s everything you need to know about why ruined orgasms are a turn-on and how you can explore them with a partner.
What is it?
A ruined orgasm is when the stimuli is removed as the orgasm is about to happen. That is, the handjob stops or slows down when you are almost at the edge or the blowjob is interrupted or your dick is removed from one of her holes. And because you don’t get those final rubs to completion, you will continue to ejaculate but without the big orgasm that you were looking for. When that occurs, the resulting orgasm loses some of its typical intensity.
Ruined orgasms don’t always happen intentionally. You might have experienced one by accident if your solo or partnered session was suddenly interrupted.
Why Would Someone Want This?
A ruined orgasm is traditionally common in BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) and Femdom related activities but isn’t limited to them. It is the idea of denying someone full pleasure. But there is so much more to the ruined orgasm that can lead to a better sexual experience with your partner.
What makes the ruined orgasm most appealing is that it continues to leave you desiring for more. When a man experiences a traditional orgasm, his horniness immediately disappears. It is a mental reset of sorts. Once a man orgasms and releases his fluids, the brain releases a ton of endorphins and neurotransmitters, including the “feel-good” dopamine. As a result, some men tend to get feelings of disgust with oneself or possibly guilt and regret with the act of intercourse. Time passes and the cycle begins all over again. This is often referred to as Post Nut Clarity or PNC.
When one experiences the ruined orgasm, those desires do not disappear while you can still experience an orgasm, albeit, less intense.
