Sticky, smooth, creamy, and irresistibly delicious—that’s what I think of when I imagine the indulgent pleasure of cum. I’m utterly captivated by it, and there’s something intensely satisfying about drawing out every last drop from deep within me.

I know many people share my fascination with cum, while others may not quite understand what it means to truly enjoy this unique experience. That’s why I’ve created this guide—to help you explore and appreciate the art of enjoying cum the right way. Whether you’re curious or already involved, this guide will show you how to fully embrace cum play and connect more deeply with your partner’s creativity in this fascinating world.

In simple terms, a cum kink is when someone is sexually aroused by the sight, smell, taste and feel of semen and they desire to have it on or in their body or both. Cum kinks can take many forms. Below is a list of the most common cum-filled activities.

Working with a Partner

Communication plays an essential role. All participants need to be fully on board for it to work and for it to be both a safe and enjoyable experience.

By participating in cum kink activities with a partner, sex takes on a whole different quality. Considered taboo, the uninhibited activity opens the door for other sexual inclination and fantasies.

For instance, Creampie Eating or Creampie Cleanup provides a close emotional connection and deepens the couple’s bond. The woman is guaranteed an orgasm or another one) after sex, if the male commits to licking, fingering or playing with sex toys while he is “cleaning” her to orgasm.

Yes, cum eating is a kink. The dominant gesture can provide tremendous excitement to the woman. And let us be honest, a woman who is confident and in control in the bedroom, who knows what she wants, is just too damn hot.

Besides, this act of service continues the bedroom romance by removing the cleaning problem of running to the toilet or grabbing a towel or immediately jumping into the shower. Also, some women find the unselfish deed to be quite arousing.

How to Clean Up

There are multiple methods by which men will clean the cum from their partners:

1. With his mouth. Maybe they will catch it directly themselves. Or maybe she feeds it to you with her fingers either from her body or directly from her vagina. Or it is transferred through an erotic Cum Kiss. It depends on the acts and positions undertaken by the participants.

2. With his tongue. The idea is to completely lick your partner clean of your seed inside-out. Or to clean it off of another object such as a dildo or from the floor.

3. With his index and/or middle finger. Play with that cum on her stomach. Rub it in. Or finger her and push it in and out of her holes. Scoop some up. Lick your fingers afterwards.

4. Catch it in your hand. It can’t be more straightforward than that. It is a great vehicle by which you can directly feed it into your mouth.

5. Catch it with a spoon. Much like catching it with your hand, a spoon provides a quick way to directly feed that creamy goodness into your mouth.

6. Catch it with a container / glass / dish / etc. This serves multiple purposes. For instance, it provides a means to transfer your cum into you (orally or via a sex toy) but can also provide a way to preserve that cum (in a freezer) for later use, when your horniness and desires return.

Most importantly, as with anything else in the bedroom, maintaining good hygiene is a must for the safety and health of both you and your partner.

The Cum Cleanup Related Activities

The Creampie Cleanup

A “creampie” comes from a sweet pastry like a doughnut where a sweet cream fills the pastry. In sex terms. A creampie is the sexual act in which a man ejaculates into his partner’s vagina with the use of a condom, resulting in the semen dripping from the hole. This is also referred to as breeding. The act of cleaning up a creampie is when a man (or woman) licks the sperm inseminated vagina.

The Cum Kiss

After a nice blowjob or a throatpie (essentially a good ol’ fashioned face fuck with ejaculate erupting into your partner’s mouth), share an intimate Cum Kiss. Use your tongues to swirl around that delicious creamy goodness. This act can also follow the Self Facial (see below).

The Cum Swap

Similar to the above Cum Kiss, the Cum Swap involves your partner essentially drooling or spitting or by some method, pushing the cum into your mouth.

The Ruined Orgasm / Edging followed by a Cleanup

A ruined orgasm is when the stimuli is removed as the orgasm is about to happen. That is, she stops the handjob or the blowjob or your dick is removed from one of her holes. And because you don’t get those final rubs to completion, your dick will continue to ejaculate but without the big orgasm that you were looking for. This method actually helps to overcome or avoid the PNC discussed above. And once you have created all of that mess on yourself or her, you are left with cleanup duty. This is a very common kinky practice.

So is edging. Not to be misconstrued with the ruined orgasm but with edging, you are taken to the brink of the orgasm but don’t orgasm right away. During solo or partnered edging sessions, you find yourself getting to the edge over and over again until you unload that one huge release. Often, that build-up might take minutes or hours (and for some, even days). The focus here is the “tease” until you have the biggest, most satisfying orgasm possible. Where the ruined orgasm is intended to have a less-satisfying climax and as a result, your horniness (and erectness) does not subside until you do, which is perfect for cum eating activities.

The Facial Cleanup

After giving your partner a much-needed facial, start making out with her. Lick it off her face or use your fingers to scoop it directly into your mouth.

Cum on Tits Cleanup

Cum on her tits. Rub it in. Play with it. Then lick it completely clean.

Facesitting / Cum Feeding

After the deed is done and you fill her up, she will sit directly on your face, placing that sweet pussy over your mouth where all of that white frosted goodness drips directly in while you continue to suck, eat and clean, potentially bringing her closer to an orgasm (or another one).

The 69 Position Cleanup

Like the Cum Feeding, after you fill up her vagina (or asshole), typically from a cowgirl or reverse cowgirl position, she will fix her position on top to form a 69. You then have the task to clean that pussy dry. She may or may not choose to clean your dick.

Public Hair Cleanup

Some have a hairy pussy fetish and whether you do or not, a pubic hair cleanup involves ejaculating onto the woman’s pubic hair and slowly licking that sticky cum right off.

Cum on the Floor Cleanup

Oops. Some or all your cum hits the floor. Get on all fours and lick it all up. Not a single drop goes to waste!

A Spoonful of Cum

The idea here is to use a feeding utensil such as a spoon to either catch or scoop up the cum and in turn, feed directly into the man’s mouth.

The Asspie Cleanup

Essentially the same thing as a Creampie Cleanup, the difference being that it was the asshole that was filled with sperm and must now be licked clean.

Doggystyle Pull-out Cleanup

Start fucking your partner in a doggystyle position (vaginally or anal) but just before you pump her full of that hot jizz, pull out and finish off by stroking your cock until you shoot that fountain all over her back and ass, and maybe even down her crack. Next, use that tongue to clean it up before it lands on the bed or floor.

Missionary Pull-out Cleanup

Like the doggystyle method above but in missionary style instead. Just before you pump her full of that hot jizz, pull out and finish off by stroking your cock until you shoot that fountain all over her stomach. Next, use that tongue to clean it up before it lands on the bed or floor.

Cum on Panties Cleanup

Either cum directly into her panties (maybe while she is still wearing them) or pump her full of your essence and let it all drip down to her under garment. Then, once it has finished collecting every drop, suck it right off.

Harvest / Milking

The idea of harvesting cum is to feed it to the male either now or later. Sometimes this involves the act of milking which often does include prostate play (with toys or anal fingering). The cum is then collected on a plate or in a glass or in a container (which can be frozen) for consumption later. Sometimes this cum is used to flavor that coffee as a cum creamer or frost that brownie and more. Another advantage to the harvest is to collect just enough cum for an ejaculating dildo.

Self-Facial / Autofellatio (i.e. the self-suck)

This is not always the most comfortable position to get in but if you can do one, it is worth it. Maybe with the help of your partner (if applicable), lift your legs over your head so that your dick is directly over your face/mouth. Sometimes it helps to be up against a headboard or wall. If you can get your dick in your mouth, then even better. Then have your partner stroke you until you come to completion and release all your juices all over your face and hopefully into your mouth. Then use your fingers to guide the rest into your mouth for oral consumption.

Cum Ice Cubes

Save that cum for another time and freeze it into ice cubes. You can then use those ice cubes in your beverages, but I have also read that some will stick it up their assholes and seal it in with a butt plug. The feeling or knowing that they have cum in their ass is just enough to keep them going.

Cum Fingering

Play with that cum after a Creampie or Asspie. Push it back into the holes when they start dripping out. Finger her in the process or move some cum into the next hole stimulating her even more. But don’t forget your primary goal: the cleanup. Use that tongue while fingering her to ensure that she is kept clean.

Cum on her Foot Cleanup

Do you like her feet? How about after she gets her toenails painted? What better way to worship her and her feet than by unloading onto them and licking them clean?

The Cum Lubricant

Not all cases will involve oral digesting. Use that cum as a lube. Maybe put it on a strap-on or dildo and massage that prostate. Get ready for round two!

Hand Feeding

Maybe after a creampie or a body shot (or ruined orgasm or self-facial), have her hand feed that cum straight into your mouth. Or have her catch the cum into her hand(s) and feed it to you directly from there.

Rub it into your skin, then lick your fingers clean

Play with the cum, maybe after you unload on her or yourself (after a ruined orgasm, self-facial, etc.). Rub it into your skin. Maybe rub it all over your cock and into your asshole if you are comfortable enough. Feel that sweet nectar finds its way all over your body. Then lick the tastiness right off your fingers.

Body shots

Have her pick random spots on her body (or your environment) and unload. Then, eat it!

Cum onto a strap on / dildo and suck / lick it off

Cum onto a sex toy. Then either lick the cum off or maybe suck it off as if you are giving it a blowjob. Or use it as a lubricant for prostate pleasure through the anus.

The Condom Feed

After you ejaculate while wearing a condom, carefully take that condom off ensuring that nothing drips out. Then hold the open end up into your mouth and let all the hot cum drip in.

Legs / Stocking Cleanup

Nothing is hotter than a woman in stockings. Are you a leg man? Well, spray that vanilla cream all up and down those sexy legs and be sure to let your tongue do the licking. She will love it.

Cum on food and in drinks, then consume

Who doesn’t want to add cum creamer to their coffee? It is a wonderful way to start out the day. How about adding it as a condiment to the sandwich you are taking into work? That doughnut or brownie could certainly use another layer of frosting. Maybe you need a spread for your crackers?

Cum Shots!

Release your fluid into shot glasses and immediately chug it down.

Public / Outdoors Bareback Sex

Bareback sex is the way sex is supposed to be. And what more of a thrill than to be daring and do it out in public or outdoors. But wait? How are you going to clean it up? Well, I have an idea. (Hint: it is your tongue.)

Cum on her heel / boots and lick it clean

Maybe she has on those sexy heels or boots that just drive you crazy. Unload that white stuff on them and be sure to lick them until they shine.

The Standing Cum Drip

Let her stand over you as the cum drips directly into your mouth. If any runs down her leg, make sure to catch it with your tongue. Alternatively, she can feed it to you.

Conclusion

Again, communication and hygiene are important. And given enough time and with enough experiences, you will be comfortably consuming loads without any hesitations.

There is the idea of using a fake cum recipe or formula purchased from the Internet but most, if not all of these are not safe to ingest. Therefore, it is advised to refrain from using those in the above mentioned activities. However, they are fun to use in the ejaculating dildos while engaging in pussy or anal play or simply desire getting a cumshot or facial.